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Shaunti Christine Feldhahn

    Shaunti applies her analytical skills to uncover eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships. Through her groundbreaking research-based books, she delves into the deeper dynamics of human connection, making complex insights accessible. Her work is regularly featured in diverse media, reaching readers and organizations globally. Shaunti aims to catalyze positive change, promoting better relationships and kindness through her research and initiatives.

    For Parents Only: Discussion Guide
    The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages
    For Women Only and for Men Only Participant's Guide
    For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
    Find Rest: A Women's Devotional for Lasting Peace in a Busy Life
    Secrets of Sex and Marriage - 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference
    • 2023

      Based on vast clinical experience and breakthrough research, Shaunti Feldhahn and renowned sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma identify eight simple, transformational factors to help you and your spouse create the marriage you've always wanted. A fascinating, practical field guide to help you understand your spouse and move from disconnection to delight.

      Secrets of Sex and Marriage - 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference
    • 2020

      Thriving in Love and Money

      • 251 pages
      • 9 hours of reading

      "Over 90 percent of couples experience some relational tension around money. It's the number one stressor in relationships. Based on original research, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhan provide the answers and insights readers need to deepen trust, practice clear communication, gain peace as a couple, and work toward better financial decision-making"--

      Thriving in Love and Money
    • 2018

      Are you worn out and overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list? Multitasking. Taking care of family and friends. Driving car pool. Running errands. Filling out paperwork. Meeting deadlines at work. In today's do-it-all world, women are busier and more tired than ever juggling the roles of mom, executive, volunteer, student, wife, friend, and everything in between. We've all been there - feeling frenzied and desperate as we try to keep it all together. Some days it feels like we're managing everything well, but more often than not, it feels like everything is managing us. It is easy to become emotionally, physically, and spiritually exhausted. But it doesn't have to be that way. It is possible to experience a life of peace and find rest for your soul - even with life's demands.

      Find Rest: A Women's Devotional for Lasting Peace in a Busy Life
    • 2018

      Men, Women, & Money (Hers)

      • 160 pages
      • 6 hours of reading

      Hers Edition Money can be a battleground. Leasrn how to make it a strength in your relationship. Do you know any couples who fight about money? Avoid talking about it entirely? The reasons why may surprise you! Built on the groundbreaking research of best-selling authors Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, this new curriculum reveals the ways men and women are wired differently and why they often have opposite reactions to money-related issues. And it will teach you exactly what to do about it! Most such studies focus on the technical aspects of doing money--budgeting, investments, getting out of debt--but this experience focuses entirely on you as a couple. In this "Hers" edition you'll find information and questions carefully designed for her. You'll also get a web code that gives you access to six 25-minute video sessions taught by Shaunti and Jeff. Let this video and workbook curriculum be the first step to a whole new way of doing money together. Never again spiral into arguments about money--or ignore the subject completely. Whether you are married, engaged, or simply exploring a serious relationship, this is your chance to understand your spouse, fiancé, or significant other and feel understood like never before. Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are best-selling authors, popular speakers and nationally renowned social researchers. Both with graduate degrees from Harvard, Shaunti and Jeff are the authors and coauthors of many groundbreaking books, such as For Women Only and For Men Only. The Feldhahns have two children and live in Atlanta, Georgia. brightpeak financial is a division of Thrivent Financial for Lutherans, a membership organization of Christians founded more than a century ago, which is based in Appleton, WI 54919-0001.

      Men, Women, & Money (Hers)
    • 2018

      “Where does ‘highly happy’ come from—and can we have some too?!” Have you ever looked at a blissfully married couple and thought, I wish I could know their secret? Now you can. After years of investigative research, Shaunti reveals twelve powerful habits that the happiest marriages have in common. Best news of all? Anyone can learn the secrets of a highly happy marriage! In The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, Shaunti Feldhahn shares her findings about little, very unexpected, often overlooked actions that make a huge difference. You’re about to discover that highly happy couples: • Go to bed mad • Keep score (just not in the way you think) • Boss their feelings around • Have factual fantasies • Get in over their heads • Don’t tell it like it is • Don’t look to marriage to make them happy… Packed with eye-opening research and practical helps, this book delivers relationship insights that will take your marriage from “just fine” to “just the marriage we’ve always wanted.”

      The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages
    • 2015

      Through a Man's Eyes

      • 181 pages
      • 7 hours of reading
      3.7(202)Add rating

      What Happens When Women See What Men See? You already know that your husband, boyfriend, or son is wired differently from you, but do you know what that really means? It means, among other things, that he’s been given the gift of a unique visual wiring—and the challenges that come with it. In Through a Man’s Eyes, Shaunti Feldhahn and Craig Gross team up to help open our eyes to something we are often blind to. They address questions like: · “Why are guys so visual—and what does that mean, anyway?” · “How do I help my son navigate this sex-crazed culture?” · “How dare someone tell a woman to watch what she wears! Isn’t it a man’s responsibility not to look?” · “If he’s tempted by visual images, is there something wrong with him? With me?” · “My husband is an honorable guy, so why would he be tempted by porn?” · “How can I talk to my husband or son about this? What can I do to support him?” Through the compassion and candor in this book, we can learn what men have long wished we knew (but didn’t know how to explain)—and see the difference it makes when we do!

      Through a Man's Eyes
    • 2014

      The Good News About Marriage

      • 196 pages
      • 7 hours of reading
      4.1(205)Add rating

      Divorce is not the biggest threat to marriage. Discouragement is. You’ve probably heard the grim Half of all marriages end in divorce . The divorce rate inside the church is the same as outside . Most marriages are just holding on. But what if these “facts” are actually myths? In The Good News About Marriage, best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn presents groundbreaking research that reveals the shocking, incredibly inspiring · The actual divorce rate has never gotten close to 50 percent. · Those who attend church regularly have a significantly lower divorce rate than those who don’t. · Most marriages are happy. · Simple changes make a big difference in most marriage problems. · Most remarriages succeed. For too long, our confidence in marriage has been undermined by persistent misunderstandings and imperfect data. This landmark book will radically change how we think and talk about marriage—and what we can dare to hope from it. “Shaunti takes aim at marriage myths that have spread like a cancer through our culture–myths that have become self-fulfilling prophecies. This book is packed with game-changing revelations. Like this Not only are most people staying married, they are happy in their marriages!” –Emerson Eggerichs, best-selling author of Love and Respect

      The Good News About Marriage
    • 2013

      For Women Only

      What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men

      Discover the Truth He Wants You to Know The man in your life carries important feelings so deep inside he barely knows they're there, much less how to talk about them. Yet your man genuinely wants you to get him - to understand his inner life, to know his fears and needs, to hear what he wishes he could tell you. In her landmark bestseller, For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman - single or married - needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including: •Why your respect means more to him than your love. •How he feels deep inside about his role as provider. •What it means for a man to be so visually wired. •Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical. •What he most wishes he could say to you. Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you'll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what's really going on when he seems to check out. (You'll be surprised and pleased.) Millions worldwide have experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the aha moments and practical ideas in this little book. Discover how to love your man for who he really is

      For Women Only
    • 2013

      Finally, you can understand her! This updated edition of the groundbreaking classic explains how to achieve better communication with your girlfriend, fiancée, or wife—from the authors of For Women Only. More than 2 million copies sold in the series! “Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn have unearthed a treasure chest of insights that are not only eye-opening, but life-changing.”—Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North Point Community Church If you’re like most men, you’ve burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, how to make her happy. The good news: success is simpler than you ever thought. In For Men Only, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn reveal the eye-opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love. For example: • Why she can’t “just not think about” something that’s bothering her • How to get her real answers without games • How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache—and what to do about it • Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works • Why her “I do” at the altar will always mean, “do you?” and the answer that rocks her world Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

      For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women
    • 2013

      For Women Only

      • 207 pages
      • 8 hours of reading
      4.1(12607)Add rating

      Discover the truth he wants you to know in this revised and updated edition of the landmark bestseller that reveals what every woman—single or married—needs to know about the important man in her life. More than 2 million copies sold in the series! “Meaningful information for any woman wanting to understand men at a profound level.”—Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, authors of Love Talk Men carry important feelings so deep inside they barely know they’re there, much less how to talk about them. Yet your man genuinely wants you to “get” him—to understand his inner life, to know his fears and needs, to hear what he wishes he could tell you. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, For Women Only delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including: • Why your respect means more to him than your love. • How he feels deep inside about his role as provider. • What it means for a man to be so visually “wired.” • Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical. • What he most wishes he could say to you. Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you’ll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to “check out.” (You’ll be surprised and pleased.) Millions worldwide have experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the “aha” moments and practical ideas in For Women Only. Discover how to love your man for who he really is.

      For Women Only