Axel Neustädter Books

Once the blow job was just considered a part of foreplay; now everyone knows it’s a centerpiece of great sex. A quick glance at online dating sites is enough to see that going down is on the rise. But not everyone who claims to be a deepthroat expert really is one: the art of sucking and licking has to be learned. The Better Blow Job is a must-read for anyone who wants to be a blow job champion. Following on the success of his books, Gayma Sutra and The Bigger Bang, author Axel Neustädter opens his mouth extra wide to tell all about the secrets of deep throating: why you shouldn’t eat chilies before blowing; what’s so great about gaggling; and why a powerful blow job can bring tears to your eyes. This richly illustrated guidebook answers these questions and many more—as usual, with personal stories, interviews with experts and lots of photographs.

„Who do we love? Who can we love? And how many? With “Open Love,” Axel Neustädter explores the possibilities and reveals the secrets of non-monogamous gay love. Fuck buddies, platonic friendships, spiritual partnerships: these are some of the possibilities beyond the traditional monogamous couple. Above all, however, it’s the open relationship that has always posed special challenges for people willing to step outside the monogamy template. Neustädter tackles all the important questions asked by anyone who’s yearned for a relationship with that certain extra quality: How do you open up a relationship without drama? What about jealousy? Is sex outside the relationship the new fidelity? Why are open relationships the new way to be safe? How gay is polyamory anyway? This book is a guide to the freedom and joy of alternative relationships. At the same time, it offers words of caution about excessive expectations and the pitfalls that can lead to disappointment and failure in free love. “

Following on his comprehensive guide to sex positions, Gaymasutra, Axel Neustaedter’s new book Play with Me! dives into the world of erotic role-playing. What happens when all the varieties of gay sexuality get harnessed for the purposes of transformation to lift you out of your familiar routine? That’s where role-playing begins. Whether it’s the classic scenario of playing doctor or cyber-techno games, pet play or the adventures of an office stud: There are no limits to where fantasy can take you. This richly illustrated guidebook, with its large selection of color photos, personal testimonies, and interviews with experts, answers all the important questions about role-playing. A book to help everyone find the perfect role: in bed, in the back room, and maybe even in real life.

Only two thirds of gay men practice anal sex. Why doesn’t the other third do it too? For Axel Neustädter the problem starts with an information deficit. Many potentially passive men suffer from false assumptions about cleanliness and possible injury; many men who could be active have unaddressed fears about what to do and about their ability to keep on giving their partner what it takes. This book puts all of that to rest. Neustädter talks to doctors and experts and along the way busts all the myths about ass screwing. He answers important questions about preparation and hygiene; about the ingredients in lube; about the surest way to find your partner’s “g-spot”; and much more. This much is sure: the more you know, the better you bang.

In, over and out? Not with the Gayma Sutra! This richly illustrated guide book will help spice up your sex life. More variety means more fun, and the variations are just about endless. Axel Neustädter has tested all the ways to play and found the ones to give you all the pleasure you've always wanted. He answers crucial questions about the most exciting sport there is: How to practice for the longest and most intense sex? What are the best positions for masturbation? How can two bottoms have an over-thetop experience together? And what toys can help make it even better? After reading this book, sex will never be boring again!