Revised and expanded 10th anniversary edition, featuring a new introduction by Christa Couture Winner of the 2015 Evelyn Richardson Non-fiction Award This is a sex book. It's a book about fucking yourself, fucking someone you love, fucking strangers. It's about saying words like cunt and come, and all manner of perverse verbiage. Mostly, it's about speaking honestly about our bodies and our vulnerability, recognizing we're all imperfect, worthy, and desirable. In this ten year anniversary edition of Hot, Wet & Shaking, Kaleigh Trace - disabled, queer, sex therapist - chronicles her journey from ignorance to bliss as she shamelessly discusses her sexual exploits and bodily negotiations. Trace's Trace's memoirs and essays generously welcome the reader into her world, modelling a humour and radical self acceptance that can teach us all how to talk about sex, and then some.
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- 2024
- 2014
Hot, Wet, and Shaking: How I Learned to Talk about Sex: How I Learned to Talk about Sex
- 144 pages
- 6 hours of reading
Literary Nonfiction. LGBT Studies. Disability Studies. Women's Studies. Winner of the 2015 Evelyn Richardson Non-fiction Award. This is a sex book. It's a book about having sex by yourself, with one person, or with twenty people if everyone is down. It's about saying words like cunt, fuck, and come. But it's also about the things we don't talk about-the mystery, the expectations, and the bullshit that can go along with sex. Kaleigh Trace--disabled, queer, sex educator--chronicles her journey from ignorance to bliss as she shamelessly discusses her sexual exploits, bodily negotiations and attempts at adulthood, sparing none of the details and assuming you are not polite company.