Tim Harkness Books

Psychologist Dr. Tim Harkness observes a troubling trend: while everyone seems to be shouting, no one is truly listening. Despite our innate communication skills, the current climate—marked by Brexit, Trump, and rampant social media opinions—suggests we've lost the ability to engage constructively. Conversations have become increasingly adversarial, leading to alienation from differing viewpoints. Issues like climate change, diversity, and political polarization fuel intense debates, yet resolutions feel elusive. This challenge extends beyond public discourse; it affects our interactions at home, with friends, and at work. "10 Rules for Talking" serves as a timely guide to help us retrain our communication skills. Focusing on 'crucial' conversations where opinions clash and emotions run high, Dr. Harkness presents ten rules designed to enhance listening, persuasion, and adaptability, ensuring conversations remain productive. Readers will learn to recognize the complexities of dialogue, the importance of de-escalation for safe discussions, and the necessity of respecting opposing views, even in disagreement. This book offers a pathway to a more effective way of talking, encouraging progress in our conversations.