Exploring the complexities of identity and sexuality, the narrative unfolds through Tristan Taormino's unique upbringing, shaped by a close bond with her queer father and a single mother on Long Island. Influenced by 1980s pop culture and formative experiences at drag shows, her journey reveals the evolution of her sexual identity during her college years at Wesleyan University, where she embraced her attraction to butches and her interest in kink. The memoir highlights the intersection of personal and cultural influences in shaping her radical sexuality and career.
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Tristan Taormino is a celebrated writer and sex educator whose work delves deeply into female sexuality and feminist perspectives on eroticism. Through her writings and educational endeavors, she explores themes of kink, BDSM, and the diverse spectrum of female pleasure. Her approach is direct, informative, and empowering, aiming to equip readers with the tools to explore and celebrate their own desires. Taormino advocates for expanding the conversation around sexuality and fostering a positive, inclusive understanding of eroticism.







- 2023
- 2016
Down and Dirty Sex Secrets
- 272 pages
- 10 hours of reading
Exploring the realm of intimacy, a renowned sexpert offers an edgy and playful guide filled with secrets designed for adventurous couples. This book delves into innovative techniques and ideas that elevate sexual experiences, encouraging readers to embrace their desires and enhance their connection. With a focus on creativity and exploration, it serves as a resource for those looking to invigorate their love lives and deepen their relationships.
- 2014
50 Shades of Kink
- 141 pages
- 5 hours of reading
Tristan Taormino can tell you everything you want to know about the world of kink, and more! Operating on the pleasure principle, 50 Shades of Kink is a truly helpful how-to that is the perfect beginner's guide to the realm of kinky sex and can also serve as a wonderful refresher course. Whether readers want to get up close and personal with blindfolds, crops, and paddles or are just looking for some inspiration to keep things fresh in the bedroom, 50 Shades of Kink is ideal for everyone and their lover(s). Included are techniques and creative ideas for bondage, spanking, flogging, sensation play, and rough sex; lessons on how to eroticize power, cultivate deeper connections, and incorporate kink into one's sex life; and role-playing fantasies from the popular to the taboo.
- 2008
Relationship expert and bestselling author Tristan Taormino offers a bold new strategy for creating loving, lasting relationships. Drawing on in-depth interviews with over a hundred women and men, Opening Up explores the real-life benefits and challenges of all styles of open relationships -- from partnered non-monogamy to solo polyamory. With her refreshingly down-to-earth style and sharp wit, Taormino offers solutions for making an open relationship work, including tips on dealing with jealousy, negotiating boundaries, finding community, parenting and time management. Opening Up will change the way you think about intimacy.