A therapeutic and inspiring workbook with exercises to build confidence The difference between a successful and a disappointing life often comes down to a critical ingredient that we overlook at our peril: confidence. This is a book with a practical purpose: to take us through exercises that help us rediscover the confidence we all already have inside us--the confidence that we have neglected out of habit, fear or meekness. It's a faculty we are all endowed with and confidence can flourish with the right kind of practice and encouragement. This workbook contains over fifty exercises that flex our confident faculties and guide us to greater effectiveness in our relationships, in our working lives and in our approach to ourselves. This includes a Self-Esteem Audit to identify what we might have gone through in our early lives, asking questions such as: Do you think you are essentially a good person? Were your parents essentially supportive or not? Do you hate or like being you? There are sections focusing on confidence in relationships, friendships, and at work. This is a tool to unlock our latent powers - and help us become who we long, and deserve, to be. Pair with the Confidence Prompt Cards, designed to help you find confidence and battle against timidity.
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This organization believes the journey to a fulfilling life begins with self-knowledge, positing that tools for developing this are hard to find. They created The School of Life to provide resources for understanding ourselves better, improving our relationships, careers, and social lives, and finding calm. Their aim is to help individuals make reliable decisions, particularly around love and work, by fostering deeper self-awareness. They offer these resources through films, workshops, books, and a supportive community.






Fallire e vivere felici
- 201 pages
- 8 hours of reading
Una guida all'arte di fallire bene, con consigli pratici e un approccio gentile. Questo è un libro speranzoso, consolante e delicato sul fallimento. Le nostre società parlano molto di successo, ma la realtà è che nessuno attraversa la vita senza fallire, in modi piccoli e spesso anche grandi. A volte i nostri fallimenti sono molto evidenti, altre volte sentiamo di doverli nascondere per vergogna. Questo libro ci incoraggia ad accettare il ruolo che il fallimento gioca per tutti noi e a provare compassione per noi stessi per i disastri che non possiamo fare a meno di creare nel corso delle nostre vite. Pieno di consigli pratici su come affrontare i fallimenti inevitabili della vita, da quelli piccoli a quelli grandi, questo è il volume perfetto per chiunque abbia mai attraversato una rottura, subito una crisi professionale, fatto nemici, gestito male un progetto o sprecato del tempo. Non c'è nulla di più umano che fallire e nulla di più saggio e necessario che fallire bene.
How Ready Are You For Love?
a path to more fulfiling and joyful relationships
- 152 pages
- 6 hours of reading
This book offers a guided questionnaire designed to help readers clarify their needs and desires in a relationship. By engaging with thought-provoking prompts, individuals can gain insight into their preferences, values, and expectations, ultimately leading to more fulfilling connections. It serves as a practical tool for self-reflection and relationship growth, making it ideal for anyone looking to enhance their romantic life.
Big Ideas from Literature
- 168 pages
- 6 hours of reading
An exploration of children's literature - from J. M. Barrie’s Peter Pan to Young Dark Emu by Bruce Pascoe - and the lessons these stories teach about the world around them.
Self-Knowledge in 40 Images
- 96 pages
- 4 hours of reading
40 images designed to lead you on a journey towards inward exploration of the self.
On Family
- 192 pages
- 7 hours of reading
An intimate look at family life through portrait photography and interviews. schovat popis
This collection features 40 carefully chosen photographs and artworks, each paired with insightful essays that explore the theme of confidence. The visual and written pieces work together to inspire and provoke thought, highlighting the various dimensions and expressions of confidence in art and life. The curated selection aims to encourage readers to reflect on their own understanding and experiences of self-assurance.
A Therapeutic Library
- 248 pages
- 9 hours of reading
The School of Life has put together an ideal library that can speak helpfully to our individual needs and longings. Ranging across history and drawing on world literature, offering the same essential thing: true friends through the complex places of life with kindness and wisdom.
A Voice of One's Own
- 176 pages
- 7 hours of reading
A young woman's journey of self-discovery and finding her voice as she investigates the root of her self-doubt - accompanied throughout by stylish photos.
A practical guide to finding fulfilling work by understanding yourself.
The Career Workbook
- 208 pages
- 8 hours of reading
A thought-provoking and practical workbook with exercises to help you discover a career that is truly fulfilling.
A History of Ideas
- 232 pages
- 9 hours of reading
A collection of humanity's most inspiring ideas throughout time, bringing perspective to the challenges and wonders of being alive.
The School of Life: Collected Essays
- 480 pages
- 17 hours of reading
A 15th anniversary collection of The School of Life's most popular andessential essays on self-knowledge, relationships, work and culture.
The School of Life: Small Pleasures - what makes life truly valuable
- 236 pages
- 9 hours of reading
Explores and appreciates the small pleasures found in everyday life.
A selection of unique and beautiful destinations around the world, which offer powerful new perspectives on life.
A book to encourage compassion and forgiveness, showing us how we can work towards a better and kinder world.
On Self-hatred: learning to like oneself
- 139 pages
- 5 hours of reading
A guide to emotional healing and living a more self-accepting life by learning to love oneself.
Art Against Despair: pictures to restore hope
- 201 pages
- 8 hours of reading
An inspiring selection of 100 images offering us hope and comfort, reminding us that we are not alone in our sorrow.
A reassuring guide to navigating the challenges of modern media and staying sane in a world that does not turn off.
Große Ideen für neugierige Köpfe
Die faszinierende Welt der Philosophie für Kinder – die spannendsten Gedanken einfach erklärt: Wissensbuch für Kinder und Jugendliche von 9-14 mit kreativen Mitmach-Übungen
Big Ideas from History: a history of the world for You
- 320 pages
- 12 hours of reading
An engaging, alternative history of the world for children, which helps to make sense of today.
A compassionate and hopeful guide to achieving emotional wellbeing.
Calm
- 136 pages
- 5 hours of reading
A guide to developing the art of finding serenity, not through meditation, but through understanding the sources of our anxiety and frustrations.
How to Find the Right Words
- 96 pages
- 4 hours of reading
Twenty scenarios explaining how to gently deliver a range of life's most difficult messages while causing minimal harm.
Stay or Leave
- 160 pages
- 6 hours of reading
A book to offer clarity and guidance when facing the difficult decision of whether your relationship has a future.
Nature and Me: A Guide to the Joys and Excitements of the Outdoors
- 96 pages
- 4 hours of reading
An essential guide to encourage children to explore, appreciate and benefit from the natural world around them.
Varieties of Melancholy: A hopeful guide to our sombre moods
- 256 pages
- 9 hours of reading
This is a book that celebrates the most neglected but valuable emotion we can feel: melancholy. This book carefully collects and interprets a selection of the most universally recognisable melancholy states of mind, and thereby renders us less confused by our precious yet elusive feelings.
Screen-Free Fun: 80 Alternatives to Screen Time
- 144 pages
- 6 hours of reading
A collection of 80 imaginative games and activities designed to engage and entertain without a screen.
Sex Ed: An Inclusive Teenage Guide to Sex and Relationships
- 256 pages
- 9 hours of reading
An engaging and non-judgemental guide for teenagers, publishing in the wake of major updates to the national Relationships and Sex Education curriculum. This positive, practical and empowering guide tackles sex and relationships in an inclusive and non-judgemental way. Written and illustrated by the award-winning team at The School of Sexuality Education, who deliver expert workshops in UK schools, here is advice, reliable information and reassurance on all the key topics: consent and healthy relationships, sex and sexuality, puberty and periods, mental health and contraception, porn and sexting, and more besides. A much-needed modern equivalent to The Talk , this book is perfectly pitched for teenagers and a brilliant tool for their parents, carers and teachers ... not only supporting all the new RSE curriculum content, but also answering FAQs and busting popular myths.. Created by the winners of the Pamela Sheridan Award for Innovation and Good Practice in RSE
How to Survive the Modern World: Making sense of, and finding calm in, unsteady times
- 320 pages
- 12 hours of reading
A guide to modern times that explores the challenges living in the 21st century can pose to our mental wellbeing.
Drawing as Therapy: Know Yourself Through Art
- 144 pages
- 6 hours of reading
A practical guide outlining the benefits of drawing as a therapeutic practice followed by 80 guided drawing exercises as an aid to self-understanding and fulfilment.
The Book of Me
- 192 pages
- 7 hours of reading
The Book of Me is a guided journal of self-discovery. It takes readers on a journey inside themselves, helping them explore their mind, their moods, their imagination, their conscience, and how they determine the course of their lives.
The Calm Workbook
- 192 pages
- 7 hours of reading
A therapeutic and consoling workbook with exercises to soothe anxiety and create a state of calm.Most of us long to be a little calmer: too many of our days are lost to agitation and worry, stress and discord. Yet we know that we are at our best when we can manage not to panic and take challenges in our stride.Fortunately, a calm state of mind is not a divine gift. Even those of us starting from a more agitated position can systematically understand and lay claim to it. Too many books on this subject simply explain what it would be like to be calm. This is a workbook that takes us through the practical steps required to actually become calm. It is filled with exercises and prompts that deliver the self-understanding and self-compassion on which true serenity depends. Furthermore, the book invites us to build calming routines into our daily lives so that what we learn can stick with us and change us for the long term.Based on years of The School of Life’s work in the area of anxiety and calm, this is a landmark workbook guaranteed to bring about the calmer state of mind we long for and deserve.
Anxiety : Meditations on the Anxyous Mind
- 112 pages
- 4 hours of reading
We all experience anxiety, but too often we bottle up our anxiousness, ashamed of what others might say, and end up feeling isolated and afraid. But anxiety is normal and deeply human. This book explains why we feel it, how we experience it, and what we can do about it.With their trademark combination of practicality, philosophy, and wit, The School of Life examines anxiety from a number of angles, providing a clear path forward to a calmer, kinder, compassionate, and more light-hearted future.
An Emotional Menagerie
- 60 pages
- 3 hours of reading
Filled with wise, therapeutic advice, brought to life through musical language and beautiful illustrations, An Emotional Menagerie is an imaginative and universally appealing way of increasing emotional literacy in children.
What Adults Don't Know about Art
- 192 pages
- 7 hours of reading
This is an innovative guide to the importance of art, produced in a way that will enchant children and, along the way, teach their favourite adults one or two vital things as well.
The Meaning of Life
- 136 pages
- 5 hours of reading
A thought-provoking guide to one of the greatest questions we will ever face--what is the meaning of life? To wonder too openly or intensely about the meaning of life can seem a peculiar, ill-fated and faintly ridiculous pastime. It can seem like a topic on which ordinary mortals cannot make much progress. In truth, it is for all of us to wonder about, define and work towards a more meaningful existence. This book presents a range of areas in which we might seek the meaning of life, including love, family, friendship, work, self-knowledge and nature. We learn why certain things feel meaningful while others don't, and consider how we might introduce more meaning into our activities.
How to Think More Effectively
- 144 pages
- 6 hours of reading
A guide to identifying, nurturing and growing our insight and creativity for more effective thinking. We know that our minds are capable of great things because, every now and then, they come out with a very brilliant idea or two. However, our minds are also tantalisingly unpredictable, spending worryingly large stretches of time idling or distracting themselves. This is a book about how to optimise these beautiful yet fitful instruments so that they can more regularly and generously produce the sort of insights and ideas we need to fulfil our potential – and achieve the contentment we deserve. We learn – among other things – how to grasp fragile and flighty thoughts before they disappear through anxiety and fear, at what times of day to try to work and for how long, how to make use of our boredom and instincts – and how to overcome timid and predictable approaches to the largest problems.
The Sorrows of Work
- 104 pages
- 4 hours of reading
A fresh approach to modern working life, offering thoughtful solutions on how to cope with professional challenges. Work can be a route to creativity, excitement and purpose. Nevertheless, many of us end up confused, discouraged and beaten by our working lives. The temptation is often just to blame ourselves, and to feel privately ashamed and guilty. However, as this book lucidly explains, there is a range of well-embedded and intriguing reasons why work proves demoralising, including the evolution of modern work, the role of technology and the mechanics of the economy. This surprisingly cheering book offers us an invigorating perspective over our working lives--and what we might do at times when our work challenges us almost unbearably.
A Replacement for Religion
- 240 pages
- 9 hours of reading
Exploring the enriching elements of religion, this "School Of Life" title highlights how spiritual practices and teachings can enhance a secular lifestyle. It offers accessible insights and inspiration, emphasizing the rewarding aspects of religious traditions that can be integrated into everyday life, fostering personal growth and a deeper sense of meaning.
Heartbreak
- 80 pages
- 3 hours of reading
Focusing on the challenges of navigating romantic changes and setbacks, this philosophical self-help book provides insightful guidance for readers seeking to understand and alleviate emotional pain. Drawing on the expertise of "The School Of Life," it offers practical advice and reflections to help individuals cope with relationship difficulties and foster personal growth in the face of adversity.
What Can I Do When I Grow Up?
- 160 pages
- 6 hours of reading
A unique, illustrated guide to the world of work, bringing clarity to children'sessential questions on potential future careers.
Procrastination
- 78 pages
- 3 hours of reading
A practical guide that explores the roots of procrastination and offers the reader thoughtful advice on the art of managing it.
Arguments
- 80 pages
- 3 hours of reading
A practical and definitive guide to arguments in love, teaching us how toargue more effectively.
Thinking and Eating
- 368 pages
- 13 hours of reading
Examining the psychological impact of the way we prepare and eat food, thisthought provoking book explores nutrition for the mind and body.
Affairs
- 80 pages
- 3 hours of reading
A thoughtful exploration of the complex motivations and emotions behindaffairs.
How to Get Married
- 132 pages
- 5 hours of reading
Many of us are attracted to the idea of marriage and yet feel a bit uncomfortable with some of the rituals that are traditionally associated with the big day. Perhaps the old ceremonies place too much emphasis on the supernatural or else seem out of step with some of the complex realities of contemporary relationships. In response to this dilemma, the School of Life has rethought exactly what the ideal wedding day would consist of and redesigned the entire process from scratch for the use of modern couples. The book begins by proposing new ways of getting prepared for a wedding at a psychological level, suggesting how couples should ready themselves for the often tricky journey ahead and how to think through some of the thorniest issues that beset love. The book then presents an entirely practical and thoughtfully redesigned wedding ceremony, from picking out a suitable venue to suggested vows and readings. Finally, the book offers some ideas for how to approach the start of married life. What follows is a bold rethinking of one of humankind's most important and popular rituals.
How to Overcome Your Childhood
- 120 pages
- 5 hours of reading
When trying to deal with our current troubles and anxieties, it can be deeply irritating to be asked to consider our childhoods. They happened so long ago; we can probably barely remember, let alone relate to, the little person we once were. But one of the most powerful explanations for why we may, as adults, be struggling, is that we were denied the opportunity to fully be ourselves in our earliest years. Perhaps we were over-disciplined and cowed, not allowed to be wilful or difficult – and so learnt to tell white lies and people-please. Or perhaps our caregivers were preoccupied or fragile and so we had to assume the role of parent, burying our true needs and desires deep underground. When we thoroughly examine our upbringings, the larger implications for our adult selves are clear to see. Once we understand the roots from which our flaws stem, we can set about correcting the harmful behaviours we mistakenly believe to be innate. This book is a guide to better understanding our younger selves in order to shape who we wish to be in the future. It explores to what extent we can pin our actions in the present to our experiences in the past, and how we might then break free from the learnt patterns of our childhoods.
An anthology of materials drawn from the work of The School of Life Press and The School of Life Blog. Brings together ten years of essential and transformative research on emotional intelligence, with practical topics including: how to understand yourself; how to master the dilemmas of relationships; how to become more effective at work; how to endure failure; how to grow more serene and resilient
How to Travel
- 132 pages
- 5 hours of reading
A practical guide to traveling in the best way possible, featuring 20 essays for inspiration and advice in a broad range of scenarios.
Phone Detox
- 64 pages
- 3 hours of reading
The book explores the pervasive impact of smartphones on personal relationships and daily life, revealing how they distract us from meaningful connections and experiences. It delves into the consequences on love stories, family dynamics, work, leisure activities, and overall health, highlighting the struggle to find genuine interest beyond the digital realm. Through this lens, it prompts readers to reflect on their own interactions and the value of real-life connections in an increasingly tech-driven world.
Accessible philosophy for children; a collection of important concepts from 25 famous thinkers, contextualised in relatable everyday scenarios.
What Is Culture For?
- 112 pages
- 4 hours of reading
An exploration of how the arts relate to our daily lives, and how we can draw on cultural masterpieces to find the answers to our personal dilemmas.
What is Psychotherapy?
- 120 pages
- 5 hours of reading
An in-depth look at a much misunderstood practice, offering a fresh viewpoint on how this science can be a universally effective route to our better selves.
Self-Knowledge
- 96 pages
- 4 hours of reading
An examination of the importance of self-knowledge, providing practical exercises to aid self-discovery.
A book to inspire closeness and connection, helping people not only to find love but to make it last.
Things Never to Tell Children
- 96 pages
- 4 hours of reading
This is a book that should never fall into the hands of children – for it is filled with the darkest truths about life that might unbearably depress the young. However, for the older ones among us, this is a book full of solace, humour and relief. In a charming, naively illustrated tale, we follow the adventures of Bunny – a version of all of us – as he encounters a series of obstacles we are in some ways liable to recognise from our own lives. Watching poor Bunny, we end up delighted we’re not alone, and perhaps smiling darkly in sympathy with his sorrows. Children might even have the odd peek inside if they dare.
Why We Hate Cheap Things and Other Money-Related Essays
- 80 pages
- 3 hours of reading
Entertaining advice on how to feel richer at heart.
A job to love
- 189 pages
- 7 hours of reading
Alongside a satisfying relationship, a career we love is one of the foremost requirements for a fulfilled life. Unfortunately, it is devilishly hard to understand oneself well enough to know quite where one's energies should be directed. A Job To Love is designed to help us out of some of these impasses. It is a guide to how we can better understand ourselves and locate a job that is right for us. With compassion and a deeply practical spirit, this book guides us to discover our true talents and to make sense of our confused desires and aspirations before it is too late.
The School of Life - 13: How to Choose a Partner
- 160 pages
- 6 hours of reading
This guide offers valuable insights into selecting the ideal partner, emphasizing the importance of understanding personal values and relationship dynamics. It explores key factors that contribute to compatibility and provides practical advice for navigating the complexities of romantic relationships. Readers will learn how to identify red flags and recognize traits that foster healthy connections, ultimately empowering them to make informed decisions in their search for love.
Great Thinkers
- 476 pages
- 17 hours of reading
Simple tools from 60 great thinkers through the ages, to improve your life today
A deep knowledge of our natural environment is no longer a vital part of everyday survival, certainly for those of us living in cities and working in weatherproof offices. Unless we have an inherent love of the great outdoors, do we really need to connect with nature? Bestselling author Tristan Gooley believes that real connection, no matter how small, can enrich us as individuals, allowing us to see every living thing in its own intricate network. Offering a host of techniques, he helps us awaken our senses and deepen our understanding of nature's cycles, conflicts and relationships. By cultivating the right mindset we can gain a better appreciation of the world, both indoors and outdoors. One in the new series of books from The School of Life, launched January 2014: How to Age by Anne Karpf How to Develop Emotional Health by Oliver James How to Be Alone by Sara Maitland How to Deal with Adversity by Christopher Hamilton How to Think About Exercise by Damon Young How to Connect with Nature by Tristan Gooley





































