The German edition of this book, titled „5 Lügen die Liebe betreffend“ (5 Lies About Love), quickly became a bestseller, remaining on the list for 18 weeks and receiving extensive coverage from major German media outlets. Michael Mary has made numerous appearances on television and radio, including prominent talk shows. The paperback edition has also achieved significant success, with rights sold to multiple foreign countries. The book challenges the notion of stable, happy love and the ideal of continuous passion in relationships. It addresses the reality that many couples experience a cooling of passion over time, despite societal pressures to maintain an idealized view of marriage. Psychologists and researchers often place the blame for relationship failures on the couples themselves, leading to feelings of inadequacy. Mary critiques these perspectives, revealing the harmful effects of misguided advice that suggests "working on the relationship" or "developing sexuality." He provocatively uncovers the five key lies about love and sex, asserting that a decline in passion is a normal and healthy aspect of long-term relationships. This insightful guide encourages couples to embrace the complexities of their connections, advocating for self-control and tolerance as they navigate the balance between desire and mutual trust.
