Masterminds and Wingmen
Helping Our Boys Cope with Schoolyard Power, Locker-Room Tests, Girlfriends, and the New Rules of Boy World
- 377 pages
- 14 hours of reading
This landmark book reveals how boys think, providing insights for parents, educators, and coaches to help them navigate common challenges. Do you find it difficult to engage your son, student, or athlete, often receiving vague responses like “It’s nothing” or “I’m good”? Do you suspect he’s being bullied but he avoids your help? Have you reminded him that schoolwork comes before video games, only to see him reach for the controller as soon as you leave? Welcome to Boy World, where asking for help or showing vulnerability is often seen as impossible. In this world, sports and video games are paramount, while academic effort may be ridiculed by peers. Social hierarchies and unwritten rules govern interactions, making it crucial for you to understand these dynamics for your boy’s relationships and future. This guide, developed with input from middle- and high-school editors, offers a unique look at the reality boys face today. Rosalind Wiseman challenges assumptions and provides innovative strategies to help boys cultivate a positive, authentic sense of self. This knowledge is essential for anyone who cares about boys and wants to support their growth effectively.