Steven Carter Books

This is the classic relationship book that started them all, now available in paperback. It informs women of the warning signs of commitmentphobia, and explains how to avoid heartbreak.

Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

Set in the enchanting twilight hours, the story follows the adventures of various night critters as they emerge during the magical transition from day to night. As the sun sets and darkness approaches, these creatures explore their surroundings, revealing the wonders and mysteries of the gloaming. The narrative captures the beauty and intrigue of this unique time, inviting readers to discover what roams in the gloaming.

Exploring interpretations of otherness in the postmodern era, this final volume of a trilogy delves into complex themes surrounding identity and existence. Building upon its predecessors, it offers a critical analysis of societal constructs and the implications of dystopian narratives. The earlier volumes examine the Americanization of surveillance and present selected essays that reflect on cultural shifts from 1990 to 2000, culminating in a profound commentary on contemporary issues of belonging and alienation.

What Smart Women Know is a straightforward and honest guide from women who have learned the hard way how to be smart about men.

Bindungsängste beherrschen die Beziehungen unserer Zeit. Meinte man früher, das sei ein typisch männliches Phänomen, so weiß man heute, dass Männer und Frauen gleichermaßen unter der Schwierigkeit leiden, einen Mittelweg zwischen dem Wunsch nach Intimität und der Notwendigkeit von Freiräumen in ihren Beziehungen zu finden. Steven Carter und Julia Sokol beleuchten den vielschichtigen Komplex »Beziehungsängste« von allen Seiten und zeichnen damit ein aktuelles Bild moderner Partnerschaften. Anhand vieler Beispiele von geglückten oder missglückten Beziehungen untersuchen sie, in welchen Formen sich Beziehungsängste äußern, hinter welchen Fassaden sie sich verstecken und klären die Frage, ob es einen »Schuldigen« gibt. Sie helfen den Partnern, über ihre Ängste und Gefühle zu sprechen und sich dadurch die Chance zu eröffnen, eine wirklich enge und dauerhafte Zweierbeziehung zu führen.

This is the classic relationship book that started them all, now available in paperback. It informs women of the warning signs of commitmentphobia, and explains how to avoid heartbreak.