In this 19th century Russian social novella, two contrasting characters - one a western-educated intellectual, the other a hidebound country squire - find themselves thrown together on a long cross country journey in a primitive but sturdy carriage - a tarantas.
How to Stop Seeking Love, Approval, and Appreciation and Start Finding Them Instead
In this groundbreaking work, Byron Katie explores the anxiety stemming from our relationships with others and challenges conventional wisdom about love and approval. She encourages readers to question the societal norms that dictate how to seek affection, revealing that the typical advice—focused on self-marketing and manipulation—often leads to disappointment and feelings of unworthiness. By examining the painful beliefs that shape our lives, Katie helps illuminate areas where we feel deprived of love, whether from a partner, child, or boss. Through her method, readers can dismantle the false narratives surrounding love and need, discovering that true connection comes from within. The book emphasizes that the relentless pursuit of love, approval, and appreciation often distracts us from genuine happiness. Katie's inquiry method allows individuals to confront and dissolve limiting beliefs, leading to a more fulfilling experience in all relationships, including romantic, familial, and professional. Ultimately, this work offers a path to greater happiness and effectiveness in love, encouraging readers to take charge of their emotional well-being.
Ik wil dat je van me houdt. Ik wil dat je mijn vrienden aardig vindt. Ik wil weten wat je denkt. Ik wil dat je me kust. Ik wil dat je me geeft wat ik nodig heb. Ik wil dat je uit jezelf weet wat ik nodig heb. Ik wil, ik wil, ik wil… Wij willen zo veel en meestal wenden wij ons tot onze geliefde, want hij of zij kan alles regelen, moet alles regelen, vinden wij. Maar als onze geliefde niet voldoet aan onze verwachtingen, dan zijn frustratie, weerzin, wanhoop ons deel. Om ervoor te zorgen dat we toch krijgen wat we willen gaan we dan de gekste dingen doen. Alles hebben we over voor liefde, voor goedkeuring, voor waardering. Als u Ik heb je liefde nodig, is dat waar? leest, leert Byron Katie je hoe je prettiger en gelukkiger kunt leven, maar zij zal geen spaan heel laten van je zorgvuldig opgebouwde romantisch ideaal (Boekerij).
Searching for Meaning in Midrash explores the fascinating body of Jewish literature called Midrash—creative interpretations of the Bible that are designed to reveal hidden or deeper meaning in Scripture. Each of the over 50 midrashim sit next to its corresponding biblical text so that readers can compare them, along with commentary on the times and insights of the Rabbis who wrote each midrash. Readers are given guidance for answering “What does this text mean to me?”