Hope Edelman Books

The classic New York Times bestseller that has helped millions of women cope with and heal from the grief of losing their mothers Although a mother's mortality is inevitable no book has discussed the profound lasting and far reaching effects of this loss until Motherless Daughters, which became an instant classic. More than twenty years later, it is still the go-to book that women of all ages look to for comfort, help, and understanding when their mother dies. Building on interviews with hundreds of mother loss survivors, Edelman's personal story of losing her mother, and recent research in grief and psychology, Motherless Daughters reveals the shared experiences and core identity issues of motherless women: Why the absence of a nurturing hand shapes a woman's identity throughout her lifespan How present day relationships are defined by past losses How a woman can resolve past conflicts and move toward acceptance and healing Why grief really is not a linear passage but an ongoing cyclical journey How the legacy of mother loss shifts with the passage of time

Exploring the long-term grieving process, this book addresses the feelings of being "stuck" and emphasizes that such emotions are a normal part of grief. It offers a fresh perspective on how altering our understanding of grief can lead to personal growth and healing. Through this validating approach, readers are encouraged to embrace their experiences and find a path forward.

Exploring the profound impact of mother loss, the author provides insights into its transformative nature. The book offers essential wisdom for navigating grief and highlights the emotional journey involved in understanding this deep personal loss.

"A validating new approach to the long-term grieving process that explains why we feel "stuck," why that's normal, and how shifting a perception of grief can help us grow--from the New York Times bestselling author of Motherless Daughters Shouldn't I be over this by now? Why do I still feel the pain? Because of the common assumption that grief should be time-limited, too many of us believe we've done it "wrong" when sadness reemerges months or even years after a major loss. In The AfterGrief, Hope Edelman offers a new and reality-affirming paradigm: grief is not an emotion to pass through on the way to "feeling better," but a state that we repeatedly return to as we experience important life transitions and new crises. Drawing from her own encounters with the ripple effects of early loss, as well as interviews with more than seventy-five people, Edelman offers profound advice for reassessing loss and adjusting the stories we tell ourselves about its impact on our identities. With guidance for reframing a story of loss, finding equilibrium within it, and experiencing renewed growth and purpose, The AfterGrief shows that though grief may be a lifelong process, it doesn't have to be a lifelong struggle"-- Provided by publisher

Any woman whose mother has died at an early age will agree that her life has been irrevocably altered. This book examines the profound effect this loss has on a woman's identity, personality and life choices. Based on original research, the book interweaves the author's own story with those of many other women to show how growing up without a mother continues to affect their present relationships, and most importantly, themselves.

Exploring the intricate bond between generations, Edelman delves into the complexities of familial relationships in her latest work. Building on her previous exploration of mother loss, she examines how these connections shape identity and influence personal healing. Through insightful narratives, she highlights the significance of understanding and nurturing these ties across generations, offering a poignant reflection on the impact of family dynamics on our lives.

The book includes a discussion guide, providing readers with insights and questions to enhance their understanding and engagement with the text. This feature encourages deeper exploration of the themes and characters, making it ideal for book clubs or individual reflection.