Fern Schumer Chapman Books

"A warm, empathetic guide to understanding, coping with, and healing from the unique pain of sibling estrangement. "Whenever I tell people that I am working on a book about sibling estrangement, they sit up a little straighter and lean in, as if I've tapped into a dark secret." Fern Schumer Chapman understands the pain of sibling estrangement firsthand. For the better part of forty years, she had nearly no relationship with her only brother, despite many attempts at reconnection. Her grief and shame were devastating and isolating. But when she tried to turn to others for help, she found that a profound stigma still surrounded estrangement, and that very little statistical and psychological research existed to help her better understand the rift that had broken up her family. So she decided to conduct her own research, interviewing psychologists and estranged siblings as well as recording the extraordinary story of her own rift with her brother--and subsequent reconciliation. Brothers, Sisters, Strangers is the result--a thoughtfully researched memoir that illuminates both the author's own story and the greater phenomenon of estrangement. Chapman helps readers work through the challenges of rebuilding a sibling relationship that seems damaged beyond repair, as well as understand when estrangement is the best option. It is at once a detailed framework for understanding sibling estrangement, a beacon of solidarity and comfort for the estranged, and a moving memoir about family trauma, addiction, grief, and recovery"-- Provided by publisher

Set against the backdrop of 1938, a young girl named Edith embarks on a daunting journey from her small German village to the unfamiliar city of Chicago, seeking refuge from the impending threat of the Nazis. At just 12 years old, she faces the challenges of immigration and loneliness as she navigates a new life in a foreign land, highlighting themes of resilience and courage in the face of adversity.

The story explores Harper's complex emotions as she reunites with her grandmother after a long separation due to the pandemic. Instead of joy, Harper feels anger towards Mama Fern for her absence, leading to a refusal to engage. This beautifully illustrated book aids young readers in processing their feelings about family connections and offers guidance to grandparents on handling sensitive situations. It emphasizes that love remains strong even during times of separation, likening it to a constant light that never dims.

This companion guide offers insights and strategies to improve sibling relationships, complementing the themes explored in Brothers, Sisters, Strangers. It provides practical advice for navigating conflicts, fostering understanding, and ultimately achieving peace with your siblings. Through thoughtful exercises and reflections, readers can enhance their connections and address unresolved issues, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking to strengthen familial bonds.

The story beautifully illustrates the impact of the pandemic on the bond between a grandmother and granddaughter, highlighting the emotional challenges of being apart from loved ones. Through delightful illustrations, it conveys the message of love and connection despite physical distance, helping young children understand the situation in a comforting way.