Online Dating as A Strategic Game

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The book delves into the dynamics of men in Hong Kong using QQ, an online instant messenger, to pursue women in mainland China, particularly in Shenzhen. It highlights the strategic nature of these interactions, where men provide resources without guaranteed returns, often leading to emotional complexities. The study reveals how men navigate the online space by crafting appealing identities and learning emotional norms, yet they sometimes miscalculate the balance of costs and rewards, resulting in unreciprocated investments and unexpected romantic feelings.