The Black Friend: On Being a Better White Person

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Writing from a friend's perspective, Frederick Joseph shares candid reflections on his experiences with racism and discussions with prominent artists and activists, making this an essential read for committed anti-racists and those new to racial justice. Joseph recounts his life as a transfer student in a predominantly white high school, filled with uncomfortable moments that he often overlooked. As he matured, he recognized these instances as missed opportunities to advocate for himself and educate those unaware of their negative impact. Speaking directly to readers, he revisits race-related anecdotes, explaining their hurtfulness and how he would approach them differently today. Each chapter features insights from notable figures, including Angie Thomas, April Reign, and Jemele Hill, addressing topics such as cultural appropriation, power dynamics, "reverse racism," white privilege, and microaggressions, alongside the tragic consequences of overt racism. This work serves as a conversation starter, toolkit, and invaluable perspective from a former "token Black kid" who embodies the supportive friend many readers need. The backmatter includes an encyclopedia of racism, detailing relevant historical events and terminology.