Like A Boy But Not A Boy

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This revelatory work examines gender, mental illness, parenting, mortality, bike mechanics, work, class, and the complexities of living in a body. Through fourteen essays, andrea bennett shares insights on gender expectations and the challenges of being a non-binary parent, blending humor and poignancy. The essays explore interconnected themes, such as mental health, mortality, creative endeavors, and even the mechanics of bicycles, revealing personal growth through seemingly mundane tasks. In "Tomboy," bennett reflects on existing in a gender in-between space, while "37 Jobs 21 Houses" critiques the belief that hard work and relocation lead to a better life. Interspersed are "Everyone Is Sober and No One Can Drive," featuring stories of queer millennials from small Canadian towns. Echoing the spirit of Ivan Coyote's work, this book addresses the quest for self-acceptance and the challenge of creating space for others. It contemplates atheism and the search for faith in uncertain times, the struggle to embrace life's fleeting nature, and the significance of bringing new life into a world that often feels bleak. With keen observation and thoughtfulness, bennett uncovers intimate truths about the human experience, transcending the gender binary.