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When Rachel Krantz fell for Jacob, he expressed a desire for a commitment that excluded exclusivity. Intrigued by this unconventional approach, Krantz embarked on a relationship rooted in love and liberation. As a perceptive journalist, she meticulously documented her experiences, interviewed other couples, and examined her emotions while exploring non-monogamy. The outcome is a compelling blend of memoir and immersive journalism that reads like engaging fiction, offering a candid look at non-monogamous relationships—highlighting both the challenges of jealousy and anxiety and the joys of deep connections and eroticism. As she and Jacob navigate their evolving love, Krantz confronts issues of power and gender dynamics, questioning whether Jacob is her liberator or manipulator. She shares her intimate moments and insights while also featuring stories from other couples who have crafted diverse relationship styles. Through her exploration of non-monogamy, Krantz tackles universal questions about love and happiness with honesty and depth: Can one experience both freedom and love? How do we balance intimacy with desire? What does trust truly mean? Ultimately, she examines whether the pleasure derived from such relationships outweighs the accompanying pain.