Modern Romance

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At some point, everyone embarks on a journey to find love, navigating dates and relationships in search of a deep connection. While this pursuit seems standard today, it contrasts sharply with past decades. Modern singles enjoy more romantic options than ever, thanks to technology, which enhances our ability to connect and evaluate these choices. Yet, many still feel frustrated. Unique challenges arise in contemporary dating, such as deciphering cryptic texts or navigating unexpected messages from exes. However, the shift in romantic dynamics extends beyond technology. A few decades ago, people typically married young after meeting suitable partners in their neighborhoods, often with family approval. Today, marriage is delayed, and individuals spend years searching for their ideal soulmate. Comedian Aziz Ansari has long focused on modern romance, but for this project, he partnered with NYU sociologist Eric Klinenberg to conduct extensive research, including hundreds of interviews and focus groups across the globe. They analyzed behavioral data, surveys, and even created an online forum on Reddit that garnered thousands of responses. Collaborating with leading social scientists, they produced a work that combines humor with rigorous social science, offering fresh insights into the complexities of contemporary love.