Finish [Paperback]

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Year after year, readers confide that while they can start projects easily, finishing them is another story. Research shows that 92 percent of New Year's resolutions fail, making success seem nearly impossible. For a long time, I believed my lack of completion stemmed from not trying hard enough. I woke up early, consumed excessive energy drinks, hired a life coach, and focused on superfoods, but nothing worked—except for a delightful eyelid tremor from all that caffeine. During a thirty-day online course aimed at helping people achieve their goals, I discovered a surprising truth: the most effective strategies weren't about pushing harder but rather relieving pressure. The biggest barrier to achieving our goals isn't laziness; it's perfectionism. We often quit when our results fall short of our expectations, especially on "the day after perfect." The strategies I present may seem counterintuitive, but they’re backed by research. Fun, eliminating self-imposed rules, and intentionally allowing for failure can significantly increase success rates—by as much as 43 percent! If you're tired of being a chronic starter and wish to finish consistently, you can continue the cycle of self-criticism or embrace the gift of completion.